Monthly Archives: February 2016


MD’s Near Death Trip Offers ‘Proof of Heaven’

Many people have described having near death experiences (NDE), and so has Dr. Eben Alexander. But he brings a unique perspective to the experience. As a neurosurgeon, Dr. Alexander had been studying the mind, brain and consciousness for over 20 years. I caught up with Dr. Alexander at the Conscious Life Expo in Los Angeles, and he shares his experience and what he learned in this episode of  my podcast, Lisa.FM Thrive!

In 2008, Dr. Alexander came down with bacterial meningitis. He spent a week in a coma, and doctors didn’t offer much hope for his recovery.  All the while, while lying in a hospital bed, his mind was an odyssey in between worlds. In his bestselling books, Proof of Heaven and Map of Heaven, Dr. Alexander describes what he experienced, and what he learned about the mind, and consciousness.

During his ‘other-world experience,’ he said he had no memories of his life as a doctor.  He describes going from ‘an earthworm eye view’ to being “rescued by a white light” into a world of “beautiful life, blossoms, flowers, buds on trees, butterflies sparkling streams… Swooping orbs of golden light, emanating changes that would blow through me like a tidal wave.”

He describes riding through the beauty on a butterfly wing, with a beautiful girl as his guide. “And her message to me: You are deeply loved and cherished forever, you are deeply loved and will be taken care of.”

Alexander says the joy of his journey is to now be able to share the universal message of unconditional love – oneness and pure love.

NDE survivor Dr. Eben Alexander speaks to a full house at the Conscious Life Expo in Los Angeles, February 2016 (Photo: Lisa Osborn)

NDE survivor Dr. Eben Alexander speaks to a full house at the Conscious Life Expo in Los Angeles, February 2016 (Photo: Lisa Osborn)

“The one healing power of unconditional love, of that deity.” Whether you call it God, Allah or any other name, he says “the words get in the way. They imply that there is a separation, but the separation is the Tower of Babel. That is… our ego and our false sense of self trying to isolate us from the rest of the universe, whereas in fact we are all one with the entire universe, and this is what we are all about.”

Dr. Alexander says everything changed for him after he came out of the coma. His speech and brain capabilities came back within weeks. But, he is still investigating his experience and thinks he will continue to do so for the rest of his life, and beyond.

Reincarnation, he says, is something he didn’t pay much attention to before his illness. Now, he says it’s something that humans should realize is a fundamental part of our existence, “including Christianity.”

Another important lessons he learned was about fear.

“I came back from this journey realizing that there is nothing to fear but fear itself… as we come to remember that we are all part of the one great spirit, we can realize that there is nothing to fear.”

Dr. Alexander says he believes there’s a tremendous shift of awakening going on in the world right now, despite all the conflict and tragedy in the news.

“I believe we are about to shift to a much higher realization of human potential and how interconnected we all are and our deep spiritual nature.”

He says sound is what propelled him through this magical other world. “It’s important to point out the that music, vibratrion, sound, frequency were the ways that my soul used to traverse those higher realms.”

Today, he uses a sound program called Sacred Acoustics to help him re-enter the world he experienced while in the coma, as he continues to make more sense of his experience. “Sound is the key to the universe.”

Here are some of the resources Dr. Alexander mentions in our conversation: Eternea.orgSacredAcoustics.comEbenAlexander.com

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Minding the Mind

Lalli Dana Drobny teaches mindfulness classes to students who wish to reduce pain, increase focus or make better decisions.

Lalli Dana Drobny teaches mindfulness classes to students who wish to manage stress, increase focus or make better decisions.

The Monkey Mind: That endless stream of troubling thoughts or other distracting chatter can zap confidence, preventing a person from focusing on what is truly important.

In today’s fast-paced world of multi-tasking, working lunches and drive thru dinners, attention spans seem to be getting shorter and shorter.

But, with a little mindfulness, the monkey can be tamed.

Mindfulness?

“Mindfulness means paying attention,” said Lalli Dana Drobny. She teaches classes in mindfulness as well as other subjects at Santa Barbara City College.

Drobny, who has been meditating for 25 years, started offering mindfulness classes in Santa Barbara about eight years ago as a public service

“Because I knew how important it was, and I had seen the difference in my own life.”

Intention is an important component of mindfulness, so Drobny asks students to choose one goal for class.

“Everyone who comes to my mindfulness classes comes for a reason,” she said.s

They want to find a way to manage stress, they are distracted or angry, they can’t focus, or they want to be able to make better decisions. “They want to change. They aren’t accepting where they are. (But) it’s a paradox. Because mindfulness is really about accepting what IS in every moment.”

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Being ‘in the moment’ can be as easy as sitting quietly and focusing on your breath for a minute or two.

In my Lisa.FM Thrive podcast, Drobny offers three short and simple mindfulness exercises, and the results are remarkable. I was surprised how at ease I felt after just breathing slowly for a couple of minutes.

Drobny suggests bringing mindfulness into daily activities, which can be as simple as paying attention to what you are doing (and thinking) while brushing your teeth, or eating lunch.

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“We do a mindfulness eating exercise, where we take four minutes to eat one raisin… You digest your food better, you actually eat a lot less, so it’s good for the environment, good for your budget and things that we are eating.”

A simple mindfulness technique consists of sitting still, feet on the ground. Pay attention to your breath… inhale, pause, exhale, pause… repeat.

sandyland sunset

“Sandyland Sunset” by Ken Pfeiffer Photography

It’s okay if your mind wanders, instructs Drobny. Just “kindly, gently, ever so sweetly, bring your attention back to the breath.”

Don’t think you have time for Mindfulness? Think again

“In mindfulness circles there’s a joke,” said Drobny, “If you feel like you don’t have 20 minutes to sit (in meditation) today, sit for 40 minutes. Because time expands.”

Drobny shares a story about one of her students who was having a hard time sitting for a formal 20 minute mindfulness practice. She instructed the woman to incorporate mindfulness into the time she spent with her young child.

“So she was totally mindful as she spoke, watched and listened to her daughter. And, she came back the next week to report that both she and her daughter were happier.  So she didn’t add anything extra to her day, she simply did it with a different focus.”

Click the link below to listen to my podcast with Lalli Dana Drobny. Follow along as she walks you thru three short and simple mindfulness breathing and focusing exercises.

It’s okay if your mind wanders, just “kindly gently, ever so sweetly, bring your attention back to the breath.”

To get in touch with Lalli Dana Drobny about her upcoming classes, email her at “lallidana at-gmail.com”


Pain & Responsibility

Can being overly-responsible be giving you an aching back?  Pain relief expert Dr. Ken Pfeiffer says it can! In this podcast, Dr. Pfeiffer explains that many aches and pains are caused by the emotions fear or anger.

“Anytime you experience pain, that experience not only has a sensation but it also has an emotion,” explained Pfeiffer.“ And, the emotions are associated with fight or flight. “

The ‘fight’ emotion is linked to anger while ‘flight’ is associated with fear. “So anytime we’re having any kind of pain there’s also anger and there’s fear.”

Pfeiffer says these emotions have a profound effects on our bodies. “When you’re angry it has effects on your heart. Your heart rate increases, your blood pressure changes….. because our bodies are preparing to fight or flee.”

Pfeiffer warns that chronic anger is associated with long-term profound physiological effects. “Very often people become angry and they don’t even realize it. And so they don’t realize that they have a choice in how to deal with that anger.”

The worst thing you can do, he says, is to try to fight or escape the pain.

In this podcast, Dr. Pfeiffer offers solutions for breaking free from chronic pain, which includes trying to relax and accept the pain, rather than flinching or tensing up in an effort to block it.

Pfeiffer also shares how you can determine if a body pain has emotional roots rather than physical. He offers listeners a technique for easing pain, and explains why back surgery is often not a long-term remedy to relieving chronic pain.

This episode of Lisa.FM Thrive! is brought to you by PainRelievers.org, offering a free Pain Stress Test.


How to Meet your Romantic Match

Lisa Amador, owner of Santa Barbara Matchmaking, is a dating coach and matchmaker. Pictured here as 'naughty Cupid,' she says her Valentine's parties usually net the most matches (Photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking).

Lisa Amador, owner of Santa Barbara Matchmaking (pictured here as ‘naughty Cupid’)says her Valentine’s parties are traditionally her most successful event of the year.(Photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking).

February is considered the ‘month of love’ for some romantics. For others, Valentine’s Day (or February) is just another reminder of being single.  But, if you would like to, chances are it’s not too late for you to find a sweetheart.

Lisa Amador, owner of Santa Barbara Matchmaking, is a matchmaker and dating coach. She offers dating and relationship coaching as well as personalized matchmaking services to clients who are looking for true love.

In our podcast conversation, Amador offers advice for navigating the world of online dating. For starters, she suggests writing a solid profile and posting flattering, non-blurry (recent) photos (which can be taken with your smartphone).

In the online profile, Amador urged Lisa.FM listeners to show off some aspects of your personality precio de viagra en farmacia. “Share what’s exciting and wonderful about you…. Tell me a story that shows who you are. Or, give something unique to allow the person to see who you are.”

Singles mingling at a Santa Barbara Matchmaking mixer (photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking)

Singles mingling at a Santa Barbara Matchmaking mixer (photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking)

“You should be very transparent (in your profile) and let people know what you are looking for so you don’t waste your time.”

The Santa Barbara matchmaking maven says one of the biggest challenges of her job is helping her clients to get in the proper mindset – to be ready for love to come into their lives. Confidence and feeling good about yourself and your body can translate into a better dating experience.

“You’re going to attract what you are putting out… so you want to attract the best,” said Amador.

In our podcast, Amador talks about how to choose the best online dating site for your needs.

Tinder is known for offering a platform for ‘hook ups,’ which isn’t the best option for anyone who wants true love. But, Amador doesn’t rule out any site, since you never know (where you will find Mr or Ms Right).

Just in time for Valentine’s Day! Santa Barbara Matchmaking is hosting a “Meet Your Match 2016” party at Globe in Santa Barbara, February 13th from 6:30pm-9:30pm. She says this is traditionally her most successful event of the year. “People come and they’re hopeful. They’re excited there’s a chance to meet somebody.”

Amador hosts parties with icebreaker games so guests will feel more comfortable mingling (photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking)

Amador hosts parties with icebreaker games so guests will feel more comfortable mingling (photo courtesy of Santa Barbara Matchmaking)

So, don’t be shy if you are looking for love – just go for it! And, please keep me posted on your stories and success!  

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